Спасать или спасаться? Как избавитьcя от желания постоянно опекать других и начать думать о себе
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1. William Backus and Marie Chapian, Telling Yourself the Truth (Minneapolis: Bethany Fellowship, 1980).
Глава 7
1. Eda LeShan, “Beware the Helpless,” Woman’s Day, 26 April 1983.
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1. Claude M. Steiner, Scripts People Live (New York: Grove Press, 1974).
2. Там же; Claude M. Steiner, Games Alcoholics Play (New York: Grove Press, 1971) и Claude M. Steiner, What Do You Say After You Say Hello? (New York: Grove Press, 1972).
Глава 9
1. Penelope Russianoff, Why Do I Think I’m Nothing Without a Man? (New York: Bantam Books, 1982); Theodore I. Rubin with Eleanor Rubin, Compassion and Self-Hate; An Alternative to Despair (New York: David McKay Company, 1975), 278.
2. Janet Geringer Woititz, “Co-Dependency: The Insidious Invader of Intimacy,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 56.
3. Rubin, Compassion, 196.
4. Colette Dowling, The Cinderella Complex: Women’s Hidden Fear of Independence (New York: Pocket Books, 1981).
5. Там же, стр. 152–153
6. Там же.
7. Russianoff, Why Do I Think I’m Nothing.
8. Dowling, The Cinderella Complex, 22.
9. Kathy Capell-Sowder, “On Being Addicted to the Addict: Co-Dependent Relationships,” in Co-Dependency, 23. См. тж. Stanton Peele and Archie Brodsky, Love and Addiction (New York: New American Library, 1975).
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1. Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983), 53.
2. Theodore I. Rubin with Eleanor Rubin, Compassion and Self-Hate: An Alternative to Despair (New York: David McKay Company, 1975), 65.
3. Там же.
Глава 11
1. Theodore I. Rubin with Eleanor Rubin, Compassion and Self-Hate: An Alternative to Despair (New York: David McKay Company, 1975); Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983).
2. Robert Subby and John Friel, “Co-Dependency: A Paradoxical Dependency,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 40.
3. Rubin, Compassion.
4. Там же.
5. Branden, Honoring the Self.
6. Там же, стр. 76.
7. Wayne W. Dyer, Your Erroneous Zones (New York: Funk and Wagnalls, 1976).
8. Toby Rice Drews, Getting Them Sober (South Plainfield, NJ: Bridge Publishing, 1980), vol.1, xxi.
9. Branden, Honoring the Self, 1–4.
Глава 12
1. Joseph L. Kellerman, A Guide for the Family of the Alcoholic (New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, 1984), 8–9.
2. Janet Geringer Woititz, “Co-Dependency: The Insidious Invader of Intimacy,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 55.
3. Там же, стр. 59.
4. Harold A. Swift and Terence Williams, Recovery for the Whole Family (Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1975).
5. Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983), 62–65.
6. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, On Death and Dying (New York: MacMillan Publishing, 1969).
7. Melody Beattie, Denial (Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1986).
8. Claudia L. Jewett, Helping Children Cope with Separation and Loss (Harvard, MA: The Harvard Common Press, 1982), 29.
9. Там же, стр. 23, 29.
10. John Powell, Why Am I Afraid to Tell You Who I Am? (Allen, TX: Argus Communications, 1969), 116–17.
11. Kubler-Ross, On Death and Dying, 99–100.
12. Judi Hollis, Fat Is a Family Affair (San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986), 80.
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13. Donald L. Anderson, Better Than Blessed (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, 1981), 11.
Глава 13
1. John Powell, Why Am I Afraid to Tell You Who I Am? (Allen, TX: Argus Communications, 1969), 155.
2. Jael Greenleaf, “Co-Alcoholic/Para-Alcoholic: Who’s Who and What’s the Difference?” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 9.
3. Scott Egleston; Powell, Why Am I Afraid; Toby Rice Drews, Getting Them Sober (South Plainfield, NJ: Bridge Publishing, 1980), vol. 1.
4. Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983).
5. Powell, Why Am I Afraid.
6. Там же.
7. Albert Ellis and Robert A. Harper, A New Guide to Rational Living (Hollywood, CA: Wilshire Book, 1975); William Backus and Marie Chapian, Telling Yourself the Truth (Minneapolis: Bethany Fellowship, 1980).
Глава 14
1. Janet Geringer Woititz, “The Co-Dependent Spouse: What Happens to You When Your Husband Is an Alcoholic,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 90.
2. Gayle Rosellini and Mark Worden, Of Course You’re Angry (San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986).
3. К Ефесянам, 4:26.
4. Toby Rice Drews, Getting Them Sober (South Plainfield, NJ: Bridge Publishing, 1980), vol.1; Rosellini and Worden, Of Course You’re Angry; and Scott Egleston.